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		<title>by: Eric</title>
		<link>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-129645</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 21:08:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Nathan, 

I have spent the last few moments catching up on this subject. You and I are on the same page of thought. I can see that this entry into your Blog has been a long discussion. I have gained knowledge that I can take with me. Thank you.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nathan, </p>
<p>I have spent the last few moments catching up on this subject. You and I are on the same page of thought. I can see that this entry into your Blog has been a long discussion. I have gained knowledge that I can take with me. Thank you.</p>
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		<title>by: nathan</title>
		<link>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-106383</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 06:27:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-106383</guid>
					<description>Don, I first read about the Mormon practice of lying with out moral consequence in Jon Krakauer's national bestseller, "Under the Banner of Heaven."  In his fair reporting, this practice of dishonesty is not a passing detail or isolated practice, but a well-known behavior. Krakauer is not a Mormon and so I have included the following quotes of those with authority within the Church of Jesus Christ Latter Day Saints:

"Church history can be so interesting and so inspiring as to be a powerful tool indeed for building faith. If not properly written or properly taught, it may be a faith destroyer…
"There is a temptation for the writer or the teacher of Church history to want to tell everything, whether it is worthy or faith promoting or not. Some things that are true are not very useful…
"The writer or teacher who has an exaggerated loyalty to the theory that everything must be told is laying a foundation for his own judgment...The Lord made it clear that some things are to be taught selectively and some things are to be given only to those who are worthy…
"That historian or scholar who delights in pointing out the weaknesses and frailties of present or past leaders destroys faith. A destroyer of faith - particularly one within the Church, and more particularly one who is employed specifically to build faith - places himself in great spiritual jeopardy. He is serving the wrong master, and unless he repents, he will not be among the faithful in the eternities…Do not spread disease germs!" (Boyd K. Packer, 1981, BYU Studies, Vol. 21, No. 3, pp. 259-271)

"What a thing it is for a man to be accused of committing adultery, and having seven wives, when I can only find one. I am the same man, and as innocent as I was fourteen years ago; and I can prove them all perjurers. I labored with these apostates myself until I was out of all manner of patience." Joseph Smith, "Address of the Prophet—His Testimony Against the Dissenters at Nauvoo", delivered Sunday, May 26, 1844. Printed in History of the Church, Vol. 6, p. 408-412.  (It is now historically verified that in 1844 Joseph Smith secretly had thirty wives.)

"We are really not obligated to answer everyone's questions…if a person out of the blue asks me,,."You folks believe that man can become like God?" It might be wiser to say, "That is an interesting question…."  Answer the question he should have asked. Never use meat when milk will do."  Dr. Robert Millet

It is my personal experience over 29 years of adult life, receiving and conversing with Mormon elders on mission that they regularly not only deflect my questions according to advice similar to Dr. Millet's training, but they also flat out lie, denying basic Mormon doctrines if they disagree with basic Christian/biblical doctrines I pose. Numerous Christians have experienced the same.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don, I first read about the Mormon practice of lying with out moral consequence in Jon Krakauer&#8217;s national bestseller, &#8220;Under the Banner of Heaven.&#8221;  In his fair reporting, this practice of dishonesty is not a passing detail or isolated practice, but a well-known behavior. Krakauer is not a Mormon and so I have included the following quotes of those with authority within the Church of Jesus Christ Latter Day Saints:</p>
<p>&#8220;Church history can be so interesting and so inspiring as to be a powerful tool indeed for building faith. If not properly written or properly taught, it may be a faith destroyer…<br />
&#8220;There is a temptation for the writer or the teacher of Church history to want to tell everything, whether it is worthy or faith promoting or not. Some things that are true are not very useful…<br />
&#8220;The writer or teacher who has an exaggerated loyalty to the theory that everything must be told is laying a foundation for his own judgment&#8230;The Lord made it clear that some things are to be taught selectively and some things are to be given only to those who are worthy…<br />
&#8220;That historian or scholar who delights in pointing out the weaknesses and frailties of present or past leaders destroys faith. A destroyer of faith - particularly one within the Church, and more particularly one who is employed specifically to build faith - places himself in great spiritual jeopardy. He is serving the wrong master, and unless he repents, he will not be among the faithful in the eternities…Do not spread disease germs!&#8221; (Boyd K. Packer, 1981, BYU Studies, Vol. 21, No. 3, pp. 259-271)</p>
<p>&#8220;What a thing it is for a man to be accused of committing adultery, and having seven wives, when I can only find one. I am the same man, and as innocent as I was fourteen years ago; and I can prove them all perjurers. I labored with these apostates myself until I was out of all manner of patience.&#8221; Joseph Smith, &#8220;Address of the Prophet—His Testimony Against the Dissenters at Nauvoo&#8221;, delivered Sunday, May 26, 1844. Printed in History of the Church, Vol. 6, p. 408-412.  (It is now historically verified that in 1844 Joseph Smith secretly had thirty wives.)</p>
<p>&#8220;We are really not obligated to answer everyone&#8217;s questions…if a person out of the blue asks me,,.&#8221;You folks believe that man can become like God?&#8221; It might be wiser to say, &#8220;That is an interesting question….&#8221;  Answer the question he should have asked. Never use meat when milk will do.&#8221;  Dr. Robert Millet</p>
<p>It is my personal experience over 29 years of adult life, receiving and conversing with Mormon elders on mission that they regularly not only deflect my questions according to advice similar to Dr. Millet&#8217;s training, but they also flat out lie, denying basic Mormon doctrines if they disagree with basic Christian/biblical doctrines I pose. Numerous Christians have experienced the same.
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		<title>by: Don Ormsby</title>
		<link>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-106345</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 20:38:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-106345</guid>
					<description>Nathan:  In a post 3/25/2008 you made the following statement:  "While I find it easy to interact with Mormons as neighbors and contributing citizens, I do find them “spooky” in the realm of Christian thought and practice. My Roman Catholic neighbor is consistently taught that telling a lie is the telling of lie no matter to whom it is told. But Mormons, who are taught the teachings of Joseph Smith are taught that telling a lie to a non-Mormon is acceptable."

Can you give me some clarification?  As a practicing LDS member, and having served two missions so far, I have never heard of this concept.  Can you give me some documentation to substantiate your claim that lying is acceptable in LDS thought and practice?  I would appreciate it.  Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nathan:  In a post 3/25/2008 you made the following statement:  &#8220;While I find it easy to interact with Mormons as neighbors and contributing citizens, I do find them “spooky” in the realm of Christian thought and practice. My Roman Catholic neighbor is consistently taught that telling a lie is the telling of lie no matter to whom it is told. But Mormons, who are taught the teachings of Joseph Smith are taught that telling a lie to a non-Mormon is acceptable.&#8221;</p>
<p>Can you give me some clarification?  As a practicing LDS member, and having served two missions so far, I have never heard of this concept.  Can you give me some documentation to substantiate your claim that lying is acceptable in LDS thought and practice?  I would appreciate it.  Thank you.
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		<title>by: Clarification</title>
		<link>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-87137</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Aug 2008 10:10:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>The link to WhyMormons has a typo.  It should be http://www.whymormons.net - cheers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The link to WhyMormons has a typo.  It should be <a href="http://www.whymormons.net" rel="nofollow">http://www.whymormons.net</a> - cheers.
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		<title>by: mike</title>
		<link>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-86023</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 16:38:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-86023</guid>
					<description>This is now buried, but I'll post it anyway.  One of, if not the best sites I've ever seen is www.whymormons.net.  It's posted by a current Mormon that also served on the mission field and baptized over 200 people.

He has grown disillusioned with the CJCLDS and is planning to send his resignation letter in.  I can’t imagine what it’s like for someone to take these steps!

I will warn you that he deals with some adult themes and throws in the occasional bleep word, but his research is quite extensive and thorough.  By the time you’ve read through most of his postings you’ll see why he grew disillusioned and is about to send in his resignation letter.

Give it a look!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is now buried, but I&#8217;ll post it anyway.  One of, if not the best sites I&#8217;ve ever seen is <a href="http://www.whymormons.net." rel="nofollow">www.whymormons.net.</a>  It&#8217;s posted by a current Mormon that also served on the mission field and baptized over 200 people.</p>
<p>He has grown disillusioned with the CJCLDS and is planning to send his resignation letter in.  I can’t imagine what it’s like for someone to take these steps!</p>
<p>I will warn you that he deals with some adult themes and throws in the occasional bleep word, but his research is quite extensive and thorough.  By the time you’ve read through most of his postings you’ll see why he grew disillusioned and is about to send in his resignation letter.</p>
<p>Give it a look!
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		<title>by: mike</title>
		<link>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-78742</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2008 17:54:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-78742</guid>
					<description>Nathan,

I'm puzzled again.  Where in the post did I mention hell?  I said I was concerned about people’s eternal destiny.  Where did hell come up?

Maybe he’s letting us know in a subtle way that he knows more than we think, or he says he does.

Is that a possibility?

There have been over 70 posts in this blog.  I wonder why he wants me to talk even more about why I believe Mormon, INC. is wrong.  He said I get on his nerves when I do that.

This is where this breaks down for me.  I find it hard to believe that he doesn’t know what I believe.  He seems to enough to know that he doesn’t believe it.

You know before you go to buy something, you research before you buy?  You read the pro and cons, look at the company’s web site, talk to people who’ve bought the product and have good and bad reviews of it.  You don’t really become an expert of that product, but you know enough to make an informed decision.  I think Clean Cut and I have done that.

An interfaith dialog about what?  Maybe he likes U2 as much as I do.  Is that it?  “The effect of U2 on Mormon and Protestant thought.”</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nathan,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m puzzled again.  Where in the post did I mention hell?  I said I was concerned about people’s eternal destiny.  Where did hell come up?</p>
<p>Maybe he’s letting us know in a subtle way that he knows more than we think, or he says he does.</p>
<p>Is that a possibility?</p>
<p>There have been over 70 posts in this blog.  I wonder why he wants me to talk even more about why I believe Mormon, INC. is wrong.  He said I get on his nerves when I do that.</p>
<p>This is where this breaks down for me.  I find it hard to believe that he doesn’t know what I believe.  He seems to enough to know that he doesn’t believe it.</p>
<p>You know before you go to buy something, you research before you buy?  You read the pro and cons, look at the company’s web site, talk to people who’ve bought the product and have good and bad reviews of it.  You don’t really become an expert of that product, but you know enough to make an informed decision.  I think Clean Cut and I have done that.</p>
<p>An interfaith dialog about what?  Maybe he likes U2 as much as I do.  Is that it?  “The effect of U2 on Mormon and Protestant thought.”
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		<title>by: nathan</title>
		<link>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-78738</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2008 17:48:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-78738</guid>
					<description>John's Gospel is helpful, Clean-Cut.  Jesus says, "I tell you the truth, the Son can do nothing by himself; he can do only what he sees his Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does. For the Father loves the Son and shows him all he does. Yes, to your amazement he will show him even greater things than these. For just as the Father raises the dead and gives them life, even so the Son gives life to whom he is pleased to give it. Moreover, the Father judges no one, but has entrusted all judgment to the Son, that all may honor the Son just as they honor the Father. He who does not honor the Son does not honor the Father who sent him."  Your eternal destiny is completely controlled by the co-equal Father and Son, who, together with the Holy Spirit, is revealed in the Bible as "God, our Savior." (Titus). Paul writes to Titus, "For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say "No" to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, while we wait for the blessed hope - the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good." These words are particularly instructive concerning our eternal destiny and present life.  God saves us and the result is a "clean-cut" life.  Not only is God the Father our Savior, but Jesus is God and Savior.  (Check out the singular pronouns that follow "great God and Savior, Jesus Christ...." The Father and the Holy Spirit are also this One God our Savior, wholly completing the work of securing your eternal destiny: "But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebrith and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life."  There's the eternal destiny! Your eternal destiny is in the hands of the Triune God, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, all working together on your behalf. Who they are and what they have done as the one God our Savior is of central importance. You are but the grateful recipient.  (I need to switch to another project now, but I will return soon to answer your question about hell.)  May God our Savior richly bless you this day, Clean-Cut.
nathan.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John&#8217;s Gospel is helpful, Clean-Cut.  Jesus says, &#8220;I tell you the truth, the Son can do nothing by himself; he can do only what he sees his Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does. For the Father loves the Son and shows him all he does. Yes, to your amazement he will show him even greater things than these. For just as the Father raises the dead and gives them life, even so the Son gives life to whom he is pleased to give it. Moreover, the Father judges no one, but has entrusted all judgment to the Son, that all may honor the Son just as they honor the Father. He who does not honor the Son does not honor the Father who sent him.&#8221;  Your eternal destiny is completely controlled by the co-equal Father and Son, who, together with the Holy Spirit, is revealed in the Bible as &#8220;God, our Savior.&#8221; (Titus). Paul writes to Titus, &#8220;For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say &#8220;No&#8221; to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, while we wait for the blessed hope - the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good.&#8221; These words are particularly instructive concerning our eternal destiny and present life.  God saves us and the result is a &#8220;clean-cut&#8221; life.  Not only is God the Father our Savior, but Jesus is God and Savior.  (Check out the singular pronouns that follow &#8220;great God and Savior, Jesus Christ&#8230;.&#8221; The Father and the Holy Spirit are also this One God our Savior, wholly completing the work of securing your eternal destiny: &#8220;But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebrith and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life.&#8221;  There&#8217;s the eternal destiny! Your eternal destiny is in the hands of the Triune God, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, all working together on your behalf. Who they are and what they have done as the one God our Savior is of central importance. You are but the grateful recipient.  (I need to switch to another project now, but I will return soon to answer your question about hell.)  May God our Savior richly bless you this day, Clean-Cut.<br />
nathan.
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		<title>by: Clean Cut</title>
		<link>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-78706</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2008 03:39:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Mike, I think you're giving me far too much credit for what I know.  I don't claim to know what you believe.  I'm interested only in having interfaith dialogue.  

Nevertheless, I'm not sure that you logic makes sense--at least to me.  "Mormonism is wrong=my motivation".  I just don't get it.  Can you expound upon that a little bit?

Moreover, I'm genuinely curious about your understanding of my eternal destiny and your understanding of hell.  That is a question I'm asking to both you and Nathan.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mike, I think you&#8217;re giving me far too much credit for what I know.  I don&#8217;t claim to know what you believe.  I&#8217;m interested only in having interfaith dialogue.  </p>
<p>Nevertheless, I&#8217;m not sure that you logic makes sense&#8211;at least to me.  &#8220;Mormonism is wrong=my motivation&#8221;.  I just don&#8217;t get it.  Can you expound upon that a little bit?</p>
<p>Moreover, I&#8217;m genuinely curious about your understanding of my eternal destiny and your understanding of hell.  That is a question I&#8217;m asking to both you and Nathan.
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		<title>by: mike</title>
		<link>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-78671</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 15:39:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Nathan,

I'm puzzled by CC's last post.  He's asking me a question from a post I directed to you.  I think he's has a misguided impression that these post have been on a personal level.  He seems to be an articulate apologist for the CJCLDS, and therefore my exchange is not so much personal (except the part where he said a web site was “fair and unbiased” and would not admit his deceit) as it’s an exchange between points of view.

I know that he doesn’t like that, but he must understand that I can’t let any others that read this blog think we agree on any points at all.  It’s all in the semantics.  I noticed in the post he sent you, I get on his nerves.  He, like others, always want to know our “motivation” is. Mormon, INC. is wrong.  That’s the motivation all along.

Yes, I’m concerned about people’s eternal destiny.  The difference is he knows the protestant view of soteriology, why is he asking me what I believe?  He obviously knows it and has rejected it. 
What am I missing?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nathan,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m puzzled by CC&#8217;s last post.  He&#8217;s asking me a question from a post I directed to you.  I think he&#8217;s has a misguided impression that these post have been on a personal level.  He seems to be an articulate apologist for the CJCLDS, and therefore my exchange is not so much personal (except the part where he said a web site was “fair and unbiased” and would not admit his deceit) as it’s an exchange between points of view.</p>
<p>I know that he doesn’t like that, but he must understand that I can’t let any others that read this blog think we agree on any points at all.  It’s all in the semantics.  I noticed in the post he sent you, I get on his nerves.  He, like others, always want to know our “motivation” is. Mormon, INC. is wrong.  That’s the motivation all along.</p>
<p>Yes, I’m concerned about people’s eternal destiny.  The difference is he knows the protestant view of soteriology, why is he asking me what I believe?  He obviously knows it and has rejected it.<br />
What am I missing?
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		<title>by: Clean Cut</title>
		<link>http://nathanlewis.org/2008/05/24/i-met-an-honest-mormon-today/#comment-78582</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2008 13:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>"How about the simple idea that it’s because [Mormonism is] wrong and someone’s eternal destiny hangs in the balance?"

So I presume you say what you do (and the way you say it) out of love and concern for my eternal salvation?  What is your understanding of "my eternal destiny"?  What do you say happens to me if I don't "repent" and leave Mormonism?  Do I go to "hell"?  What is your understanding of hell, anyway?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;How about the simple idea that it’s because [Mormonism is] wrong and someone’s eternal destiny hangs in the balance?&#8221;</p>
<p>So I presume you say what you do (and the way you say it) out of love and concern for my eternal salvation?  What is your understanding of &#8220;my eternal destiny&#8221;?  What do you say happens to me if I don&#8217;t &#8220;repent&#8221; and leave Mormonism?  Do I go to &#8220;hell&#8221;?  What is your understanding of hell, anyway?
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